Saturday, January 09, 2016

Will you remember all your Bosses?


I am currently enrolled in our Company’s Role Enhancement Program. We are on our fifth month already. In a nutshell, we are learning different management courses taught by different Professors and sometimes Executives in our Company.

In one of our classes, the Professor asked, will you always remember your Bosses? We responded probably not. But he replied back with yes you will. The difference lies in whether they fall in the category of good or bad boss. Well that make sense! We were then tasked to remember all the Bosses we had and share with the class the bad and good character traits while the Professor lists them on the board. It was one of the funniest sessions to this date as the class would tease the person enumerating the bad qualities saying oh this is your first job correct so you are pertaining to your current Boss. Don’t worry, it will remain confidential. Ahahaha!

Now came a day when one of our young Directors, James Vibar shared that where he is at right now is a result of good mentoring and leadership. He had PowerPoint presentation where each slide had the name of his Boss and the good traits he learned from each. It was just crazy because his mentors were from all around the globe, different races – only one Filipino who was his first ever Boss. He called them “my UN mentors”.  After that I am inspired to remember some of the Bosses I worked with and what I have learned from them, what are those good traits that were impactful which I can use and model towards my peers.  I am not sure though if James said those words to his Bosses. But in my case, what I will share here, I’ve already told them. Because recognizing them is the least that I can do and giving credit to where it is due is not very hard for me. Besides, I don’t work for them now. Well because I know the Pinoy culture, you can’t give praises to your current Boss because they’ll call you kiss a**! Why the face!

Hope you can get something from here.

I’m starting off with an Indian Boss,

  • Bhanu Viswanadha – I was an official part of his team for half a year but have worked with him for maybe a year or so.  He is the supportive Boss. At first, I felt pressured because 92% of his team are based in the US. But that was just me overthinking. In meetings, he doesn’t talk all the time. He listens. And my favorite, he will not limit you. Maybe because he has reached that leadership maturity where he knows that his team’s accomplishments reflect back to him. Look at our meeting Agenda, it says so much about this person: 
          High Level agenda:
    1. Significant (AaHa) achievements – All
    2. Issues that other team members may help – All
    3. New areas/interest to work on – All
    4. Management updates – Bhanu
    5. Other points
    6. Talk by volunteered individual on the topic of interest


Only a secure Manager will include number three. I remember him sending me, yes me only - materials similar to the program materials I’ve mentioned earlier. His goal for his staff is to see them grow and I am thankful. One time we were chatting about her daughter pursuing Law and he was very proud. I guess indirectly he is telling me pursue your dreams – hence I’m always asleep hahahaha!

Sharing you some of our Lync/Skype conversations.

This one is him believing me when I said the problem is the User and not the tool lol –



When needed, he is there. Sometimes he does his own research too –



Lastly, I think this was the longest time we talked almost two hours due to a very urgent issue. He was very patient with me though. I was much pressured because I am not comfortable sharing my screen when I troubleshoot hahaha but it worked, thank God!



And up until his last email, clearly shows how supportive he is. I’m just wondering about the phrase working together soon. Is he getting me or something? Hahhaha. Why not!



  • Glenn Higginbotham – I have worked for him and with him for almost two years. I think he lived in the States all his life but he looks like he has an Irish blood. I’m guessing based on his surname and profile when I saw him in person. Gwapo haha! After that I searched his LinkedIn profile and omg I see myself in him how he started as a Software Developer but became Project Manager first before managing PMO. You have no idea how inspired I was by merely stalking him!!


Glenn is the epitome of the “Good Boss”. He has his way of making his staff do things for him willingly and more important – happily! Personally, he made me stay willingly too. In my schooling now, it is said that those traits are very essential for a Boss to have. He never said we are a team but his actions do. He makes you feel you’re always part of something big and significant. He knows how to recognize you whether it be small or big effort and he gives it on time. What do you want a simple gift on Valentine’s Day or yeah something more expensive but a week late? Okay something expensive lol kidding, you know what my point is. Right timing makes it sincere. He makes you aware of what is going on. He keeps everyone well informed. Don’t you just hate those that will involve you only when things are messed up or has gotten worse? That’s what I appreciate about him on our meetings. Even if something has just started, he lets you know. Our Professor said we live in a generation where information is easily acquired so when a staff learned something from different source and not from the Boss, then that boss fairly gets a poor score, worse he cannot get the buy-in and trust of the team in the future.   

And as a validation of everything I say, here’s what his other Staff in the US told me,

He was the best manager I ever had and is such a smart, hardworking and knowledgeable guy! Seriously, not one person (PMs included) ever had a bad thing to say about him, ever! (And you know our PMs).
                
WOW!!!!

Last Thanksgiving Glenn was telling me they had a family reunion held at their home like 26 of them and was a lot of work. But he really has it, because even his family loves him too.

Glenn is very consistent in words and actions. He knows you by name (oh parang si God lang). He knows your capabilities and does not question them. In fact, he will let you face even the giants of the company because that's how much confidence he puts in his people. And when you mess up, worry not - he will defend you.

Guess to sum it all up, he’s the Boss that says I couldn’t do it without my team. And honestly, in all work that we did together, I didn’t ask for spotlight or something similar. My motivation was to lift him up instead because he simply deserved it.

I have not shared this in any of my social media because I thought I will be perceived arrogant but this time I’m posting it to say that a Manager who uses smiley is not common but cool! Just joking. This is one of the most heartfelt email from a Boss I have ever received. Very short and heartfelt. And although I did not get promoted for this worse I didn’t get a raise lol it’s okay because what’s important – someone believed in you, someone trusted you, and someone is proud of you!



  • Ed Scofield – I think he’s pure American with a slight influence from Manila using “kewl” instead of cool, “k” instead of okay and a lot of LOLs. And because I worked with him the longest, he is most loved by me. More than four years and all my peers in Manila can attest that I have nothing against this guy. You know when you work as Support, you can’t stop comparing the people you work with onshore like the common I hear from them is that she is pushy, he is weird, she is crazy, she is fake, she can’t be trusted, he doesn’t know what he talks about, she is selfish, she is credit-grabber, and so on. Oh no, we might lose work because of this hahaha. But with Ed as he’d say, nona problema. He’s very chill. No drama. We only focus on work. Okay we have a few inside jokes too. I like it when I make him laugh. I know he does, because when I was in the States, we would still use IM even we’re close to each other and then he’ll look at me and say “I know” laughing. He’s very technical that’s probably the reason we clicked together. We are both weird and we share the love for data!!!! We enjoy discovering stuff from our big databases. We are always curious. One time I think he told me I should work for CIA lol I’d love that. He is very understanding. He is not selfish at all. He is happy when I get what he teaches me. But even though he is way better than me, there are also times he consults me and asks for my inputs and that is just awesome. When he knows it’s your work, he’ll let you shine bright like a diamond lmao. He is my cheerleader Boss. How would you feel when your mentor says, I’m learning from you. Feels so good!



I hope we all learn from them. If given a chance to work for them, I gladly will! I’ve missed them a great deal and they will remain unforgotten. Hashtag blessed. Hashtag grateful.


Talking with some people, they said it’s ok to have awful Boss because you know what not to do when you’re there. 

Friday, October 23, 2015

Alibijaban Island - 2015, Day 2

On the second day, we ëxplored more of the island by foot like a "mini hiking".  Island is filled with mangroves. It was fun until it became a bit scary because I don't like snakes and we saw snakes lol. I screamed and wanna go back to the campsite but was told we are already at the middle and nobody wants to go back with me! =P









Starfish with four legs?









The pink house










Our real tent hahaha. Last minute again, Agee decided to rent a room. =))

Hammocks are the best :)


Tadaaah! Not only is this an unplanned trip. What a surprise to know that your teammate is on that trip as well! I told him not to come near me because I see work so this is our one and only picture hahaha! :) 

First Day - http://kayenski.blogspot.com/2015/10/alibijaban-island-2015.html

Alibijaban Island - 2015

Alibijaban? Alibihaban? What? Where is that? That was my reaction when I heard of the island. I've never really heard of this island in the Philippines and to think I am Pinoy! Fun fact - Philippines has 7,107 islands of which 2,000 are inhabited. Ask me and I can only enumerate thirty more or less hahaha.

Just a side story, this trip was unplanned. Well actually, me and my two friends were booked to go to Calaguas but because of an unexpected typhoon, the trip was cancelled I think three days before! That was the worst news of all. We have been telling friends about our vacation and then.... NOOOOOOO! Tell me this is not happening I told my friend.

Then I got a text from my friend saying she has a friend looking for more people to join his trip but was posted few weeks back. The dates were exactly our vacation dates. I got excited again and told my friend, contact him immediately! The good news: he can still accommodate. The bad news: only two people. Remember, we are three! Again, I got sad. Told myself not meant to be and slept. The next day, my friend informed me, hey somebody cancelled last minute and they can now accommodate the three of us! WOAH LET'S GOOOOOOOOOOO!!!! The next day I saw myself with people I don't know and the rest is history lol.

There is nothing much written about this island, not in wikipedia even as of this writing. Alibijaban island is a small  paradise,  located in San Andres,  Southern part Quezon  Province known as Bondoc Peninsula, commonly known as  Bonpen.  San Andres is one of  the farthest municipality in all municipalities of Quezon from Manila. - See more at: http://www.albertthebackpacker.com/alibijaban-island-san-andres-quezon-province/#sthash.2qNZSWi8.dpuf

All I can say is that sometimes the unplanned things are the best! This is one of my trips I will never forget. The place is beautiful and the people inhabiting it. I'm glad that I met new people too! I definitely recommend this place to you. Enjoy our photos as much as I did!


Touchdown San Andres


First meal prepared by our host. Nomnom






























Good Morning! Hahaha! Was too tired I fell asleep after the first activities. Had to recharge. Feels good =P




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During the night, we played with the local children. They taught us games and we were all laughing because we thought they were messing up with us. They made us dance  and all those crazy stuff. But it was fine because you cannot explain the happiness on their faces. They were full of energy and loved posing for photos. No tablets, no cellphones, no internet - they just have each other. I couldn't be more grateful realizing what I have. ;)











With my two fave local kids hahaha kidding



Dinner is ready!



Tents are ready!


Ending the night with a doggie photo-op :))

Day 2 - http://kayenski.blogspot.com/2015/10/alibijaban-island-2015-day-2.html